LOVING YOU
(I guess this is for her ex?)
Some believe what we call "love at first sight". Love struck, it is a chance that anyone wishes to feel. Staying in lovewith that person is another thing... its a choice we have to make. We have to accept all shortcomings, negatives and everything you discovered and will discover to that person. And when we love, we must also accept the fact that we will be hurt. No need for us to complain then. When you are badly hurt.... and its your decision to fall out of love.
When we are in love, we must bear the pain. because staying in that situation is our choice. why blame others? why blame our partners? we are doing this as defense mechanism, so it will not hurt us more.
Being in love is an inexplicable feeling. You can see only beauty, hopes and forever. Once we get hurt, why we forget to look into that beauty, hopes and forever to help us ease the pain so we may continue loving. Its another choice we have to make.
Hurt will lead us to do many things, worse is when we can not control our temper... not even tame our tongue. Hurting the ones we love, emotionally, mentally and the worst is physically. Everything will be totally different from how we started. What is bad about this, too many people find it easier to decide to fall out of love than to keep the flame of love burning.
Then love another, doing the same thing. What a cycle? It seems that we are not tired of falling in love because of the feeling it gave us.
- "you've got to love me for what I am, for simply being me"
- be happy with what you have
- think you are luckier than anyone else
- look into the negative of others, so you will see more of the beauty of your partner
- give the best you can, for you not to regret things you were not able to do.
- BUT... keep something for yourself.
in the long run, things will be on its right path. No self-pity, no jealousy, no hatred. No regret.
LOVE IS A COMPROMISE, MORE UNDERSTANDING AND ITS A GIVE AND TAKE, TRUST AND RESPECT. Love unconditionally, yet keep your own identity. Love is not you alone, but two to become one.
The one I love is not the person meant for me to live for the rest of my life. Only a love to teach me things in life, to make me a become a better person and thought me how to love more and my cross who lead me closer to the ONE I must serve the most.
Thanks for the love, the time, the effort, the pain and everything, especially the kids, the most precious reward i got from loving you!
THE SWEET LADY BEHIND A SCREAMING MOMMY
(This was her imagination for her boss' daughter who turned 18)
The little baby has turned into a sweet lady
With tears and laughter behind a screaming mommy.
A mom who is a survivor with a strength and faith no one can deny.
The sweet lady she thinks is very lazy to do the things
That can turn her to be like her mommy.
The Sweet Lady...
Though I look like I'm not listening
My heart is screaming
"Mommy! Stop thinking I am nothing"
Please have some faith that I can achieve something.
Though I tried and failed
I am learning from behind
I made a choice but never succeeded.
Now I’ve turned into something long I've been yearning.
I will do my best to give you the very best.
I am the only one and there can never be another one
To prove your worth as a screaming mom.
Please tone down your voice and let our hearts converse.
DO I KNOW WHAT CAN MAKES ME TRULY HAPPY
(Just an emotional friend who's trying everything but always she fail like me)
I used to say “Hay Naku!” it means like asking, Why life is always like this? Why life was sometimes cruel and most of the time uncooperative? In life, it’s always a different scenario or a different meaning everyday. We easily forget the times that makes us feel good, the moments and feelings we don’t want to end. Often we find ourselves being consumed or eaten up by problems that we don’t even realize it’s just a part of living.
We heard and read a lot about how to make life easier, though the Bible says it all, is there an interest in our part to read and internalize the real message of it? Then, we are still drowned in the waves of tests and trials, leading us to become a different person. It changes us on how to deal with life. It made us so indifferent, that we almost forget the real purpose of being in the realm of despair. We may hurt ourselves or others, even both. Was it because we almost lose our faith? Or forget what we have learned from our past experiences?
Whatever events come in our lives, can you notice some sort of connections that binds everything leading us to the way of perfection? What seems to be a perfect life to us? Is there a perfect life? If I say yes, would you beg to disagree? Or try to figure it out?
Isn’t it a perfect life is simply knowing what we really want? Was it simply asking ourselves, "what can make me happy?" Is this happiness already felt before and we let ourselves travel back in time and be at the moment? Or travel in the future to still search for that moment? Or there is a deeper way of knowing what can truly make us happy? Could we simply based this on how it made us laughed?
Have you tried every opportunity that comes your way? Or just ignored it because of the fear of failure? Isn’t it so disgusting to have a lifetime of asking ourselves, what if I have done this or that? Or some kind of a nightmare that haunts us when all else fails? Or just an escape to deny that we didn’t manage our life the way it can make us happy?
Does trying every opportunity can lead us knowing what we really want in our lives? Was this already planned? Have a better picture of how we wanted to see ourselves in the future?
So many questions, but the answers are so few…
NEVERTHELESS, WHAT CAN TRULY MAKES US HAPPY?